Many people go through life with the attitude that they have no control over what happens to them. They feel like “life happens” but that couldn't be further from the truth.
Design Your Destiny
When you want to change the course of your life take comfort in knowing that you can change things by taking action. By considering where you are and where you want to be you cam set goals that will take you to the place you want to be. You are designing your destiny.
Proclaim Your Destiny
After you have designed your destiny you are going to want to publicize your goals. Let people know what you are attempting to do. Put yourself out there.
Hold Your Destiny Accountable
After publicizing your destiny you can then recruit people to hold you accountable. I do this via my blog, Facebook and Twitter. When others hold you accountable you are more likely to hit your goals.
Don't Give Up
Once you've planned it all out and put it into action, do not give up. No matter what happens you should continue to push your destiny in the direction you want it to go. Perseverance will pay off in the end.